Help me! I can't make one more night. Why won't she sleep? - spanking streams
My daughter is almost 11 months. I am quiet and give her food to 3 solid meals a day and 2 snacks. It was not a pacifier or formula. His sleeping habits are terrible. I have a bedtime routine is bath time, play quietly or watch Baby Einstein, the cleanliness of our toys, stories swinging, then a nurse, from rock to 8 hours sleep. I usually 3 hours before she wakes up at 11 clock. Then I need to sleep for at least 1 hour to roll care and before he can try to put in the crib. When he wakes up every half hour to an hour. I tried not to sleep on their backs to nurse, which makes him angry. What has happened since the birth. My husband can not help me because she wants me. My husband did not cry. I do not even try to, although I am tempted. Needless to say, I'm exhausted. Last night I woke up, sleep again, and delirium, and maintained it was put back into the cradle and began to cry again. I lost. I started to cry and showed me hst. I was so afraid of me, I weep, yet started the day on my face. I do not want to hurt my baby. I want it to be healthy and sleep and be happy. A. I want to sleep I feel weak and therefore only little help. What can I do?
Saturday, February 6, 2010
Spanking Streams Help Me! I Can't Make One More Night. Why Won't She Sleep?
15 comments:
They need help now. I know people recommend books, DVDs, etc.. . . and there are those who are boards that can certainly help, but given the fact that you came to an end and the screams and beatings of 11 months old, who has no understanding of wrongdoing, then c 'is a serious situation.
I want to tell your doctor - or a pediatrician, the 11 months to examine whether it could be colic or something else to see whether they have options for you. I would like to see your OB to see if they can help.
I understand she just loves you. . . But the bottom line, she did not sleep good for you. I would say that her husband will they last for one night if you go into another room, because in some earplugs and a good night. When she cries and gives her husband a hard time, so be it - you can do for one night, so that you can relax a little. My DH had to do to me if I had a terrible cold - I was exhausted, had survived a better understanding of what happened with the twins and all.
I would, for Web services or local www.sittercity.com - sometimes you can get a babysitter for the night or simply someone to help during the day for you to nap.
And remember, if you're beaten, you can put it into the cradle and let stand for a few minutes to get my breath. Babies do not die or experience any lasting damage to cry. I do not think there should necessarily stop crying for a long time, but when it comes to screaming and banging or walking a few minutes to make them cry. . . then on foot.
Call your doctor - OB and / or peditrician - we can certainly help or point you in the right direction.
Do you have the No Cry Sleep Solution by Elizabeth Pantley? The techniques that work pretty quickly. I have 1 for my baby and helped me a lot, she had a terrible dream that impressed me a lot and my boobs lol! I know it's frustrating, I was also pregnant when I read the book. Good luck, hope you can sleep a little earlier.
Do you have teeth? Was it always thus? I do not know how you feel this, but my son if he was really difficult, and we were exhausted, she came straight to our bed and slept! You can try to Cry It Out as a last resort ... It is a place for him somewhere. At this age, she should really sleep! Good luck. We hope that the management of sleep.
It would be much easier to co-sleep. Roll over, a nurse, and then move on.
The children were not designed to sleep in cages, far away from her mother and tried to fight against nature is what makes life impossible.
Interesting: http://kathydettwyler.org/detsleepthroug ...
To be honest? Do not sleep. Only not. If you by eight clock, screaming to get out of bed and the room until he looks tired. He again without rolling. Repeat until he goes to bed is not shaken. Sixty days? It will take three minutes, if at all. But do not give up, because he is old enough to have learned that has everything got to do what they want to scream. We must learn not to do.
Yes going to scream. I am afraid that is what happens when you make a baby artificially for you and you alone.
Even with her husband. Yes, you can help. What do you do when you're at work or feeding your baby? Let Her Cry - she has to learn that the world does not revolve around all of his humor. Sometimes you will not be there. You can have a father (or) some other trusted adult, or you can scream - your choice. It is a newborn, the eleven months and is probably much of what is said about him. Tell him it's BEDTAREMI will not, and in his time, going to bed leave to feed. It may not be possible to spoil a newborn, but it is quite possible to spoil a baby at that time - and did just that. Stop now, because if you wait much longer, they will be blamed for her baby.
I know that sounds convincing and I'm sorry - but there is no recipe for it. You have to start by saying no to. You have to accept that sometimes give your baby for something, he asks. Rocking the whole time sleeping? It does not need them, they just want to to have it. And it takes almost a year to get everything they want, especially if they work not for their ability to. You are a man. Do you have your father get up and go there at night. If she cries because she wants it does not really need anyone. They do not feel guilty about to start teaching your child to enjoy.
Been there, every child is different, but the solution we came up with her doctor had to retire, my DD 12 months, at least CUT IN ALL NIGHT ..
.... My husband can not help me because she loves me only ....
This problem does not, but a close friend of mine. She and her husband from the house to wean her son visited for a week, would the child with her sister;
Did you help someone? Who really need help and rest.
And remember that the child was not his fault. and solve this problem, but you have to do something, talk to someone, and I hope that my DD PED told to wean myself;
You may hear many advocates of breastfeeding, the withdrawal is bad, etc. .. I've heard a lot. But for us to solve several
I try to put some of his CD of rain, the sea, the wind of the EC Treaty
Just put it in his bed at 8:30 clock and radio might sound a little if you have no CD. Once you start to eat, she wants the whole time and you are so tired that you lose the patience to start all the time. You want in a routine before the second child is born to be, or are not able to deal with it. will be left to grieve alone for a while, until they know they can not find the time. Good luck and endurance.
Well, I think you've lost a little perspective, it is not surprising that after so little sleep. Your child is accustomed to feeding to sleep, so it is expected to awaken and for them. She did not need sleep, but has not yet learned. In most cases I would push a softer approach this time with a few switches and try it instead of in nursing, followed by choking back her baby and re-select, etc etc, but that does not mean in your case. You need a solution much faster, as you say.
Here you have to step back and look at the bigger picture. Your baby is hurt in any way by the expectation of 2 minutes, then 5 minutes, etc., etc., before her. Or you could try to tackle this problem immediately, for convenience, then leave the room and return after a few minutes.
Your baby will be hurt by spank you. It is also the danger of something worse.
The choice of the lesser of two evils. They are the mother and mustFeature. A healthy parent your child like to be of great benefit. The decline in this period.
Good luck
I just wanted to say I totally agree with you and understand how he feels at this moment, my baby is only 5 months and has stayed Neva, then 4 hours, usually with only 1-2 hours of sleep before the vigil and the only way I can stop him cry to sleep, is to heal, I was in the last round and end up with a couple of nights crying to him because he sooo tired. Recently, I have my doctor has suggested that the tests a dream to go, basically its a house and stay for the night to assess and to interact Bub and training assistance so that both must BUB for a better sleep I am counting the days until they go. Maybe you could go to your doctor and see if something similar is in your area with your pregnancy as a perfect example of houses in his sleep. I do not know where you live, but it's a march in Sydney, Karitane, here is a site that you can view the information very useful: http://www.swsahs.nsw.gov.au/ Karitane / docs / cottage.asp
I think it needs to rethink its strategy. It is unreasonable to expect a baby of 11 months to sleep through the night. At this age, when they go to bed with full stomachs, not to have "a nurse in the night. It seems as if she needs to comfort nurse to get back to sleep.
I know it's hard to hear your baby cry, but do not really think there is a way to solve this problem without sadness.
I know that if you know that food is the grief it's hard not to stop, but I think you have to start slowly, clinging to the diet does not go to sleep each time. Maybe start with the decision is not in your feed, when you wake up between midnight and six hours. If he cries give, you or your spouse, a few soothing words, it can change, but do not remove them from the cradle. You will cry, but she will soon learn to be supported, if you wake up to this moment.
There is no magic solution to the problems of children to sleep, independent,To say what books and websites. They should have time to help them learn to sleep and sleep when they wake without your help. And right now, which means that sometimes in tears.
But he seems very tired and at the end of his tether. It's so hard to make clear decisions when you're so tired! I do not think you beat your child a good idea. She does not cry "bad", but he does not know how to return to sleep without nursing. You must have patience and help them learn. I know it's hard, but if you start now, you should see a child who also have prior to the birth of her second.
Well, I would like to assign their anxiety, childhood diseases, but to say what happened, since he was born, and ...... have led to the doctor? Perhaps there are some internal problems that cause your symptoms. I know it's hard to have patience when you are exhausted and, above all, is pregnant again, which should be hard and I pity you. But remember, there are probably as tired as you, and spanking, it will not help the situation if things get worse.
I know I get many thumbs down for this, but you have attempted to common sleep? I only recommend, because it may be the only way you get a good night's sleep is really necessary. Sometimes all a child wants is a good cuddle with mom, and both the whole night in this way, so good, go ahead.
I really hope that you find something that as a family. Remember, you need rest more than anything now, because you grow a baby you have. Do what works, and if that meansYour baby with you, sleep well for a few months, I think it was that bad. Good luck to you.
My son is only 3 ½ months and I wait until I have a dream more than three hours. I always say to 6 months will be better. The sorry you feel that way. I can not imagine doing this for 11 months. Perhaps you could have filled a few bottles and her little girl sitting next to someone you trust for an entire night. I'll do if my son a little longer just to get a balance if only the night. My mother is looking forward to seeing you. Sorry I couldnt help more. Goodluck.
Have you tried with several bottles to bottles, pacifiers and a different brand?
Your baby can take 1 brand, and is the mother of two children. It has never been another brand, despite my efforts to find a cheaper.
However, it is difficult to try to wean her breastfeeding, unless you are right cylinders, and therefore only one bottle can go to sleep at night.
Our daughter turned 1 yesterday and still wakes up 2-3 times during the night, and I am also 30 weeks pregnant. I know it's hard. I have just one bottle, she went to bed, and she too.
Stamina is important. Not so for ever.
oh dear I know its sooooo hard --- Never forget that it is better to leave the crib and walk, or even for a few minutes if you think you are losing again. Sleep deprivation is the worst form of torture - I know! My daughter 9 months and the book
Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child by Marc Weissbluth
We saved the lives ... Buy ... and if that does not help you reach your pediatrician and / or family members for support - and try to remember that your baby does not express .... Good luck!
I agree with Mom and cathrl69 Emmys.
Your daughter knows what she wants and knows how to do it. You do not want to cry? Well, what do you do if your baby is born? You have to want to go many times, at the same time. You can not yoruself will divide into two when one of them at the end crying because he did not / they get what they want.
It is necessary to step back and see your choice.
Emmys like Mama said, do not give your room immediately, wait 2 minutes, then 5 minutes, etc. There is no harm in letting crying baby. This is not just like an hour. And as they say, what is the lesser of two? Get lost him cry for a few minutes "and strike again? It will be difficult to hear her cry for 2 minutes, then 5, etc., but it is less painful than the sadness I feel now about your shots. (Incidentally, I'm not saying this out)
Of course it is not necessary that the nurse wants that to breastfeed. You do not destroy itselfHat habit.
I know what it is, I did not really sleep for a very solid, since before my daughter was born, about 2 years. The first time I slept the whole night was almost 2 months, but not every time he wakes up, it's stayed with him. And now with a new baby, I'm exhausted. But little by little, my daughter is learning.
Stay strong and help her husband. It helped at the birth. Good luck.
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